• Doorbook@lemmy.world
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    29 days ago

    Additionally, I would suggest activities that doesn’t isolate him further or put him in a group of like minded people. Cooking classes would be nice.

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      28 days ago

      While cooking classes might be nice, I would think for someone who is suspected of falling into the fascist sphere of influence that masculinity is more than likely highly emphasized so they would more than likely be offended by the thought of cooking.

      Although if you could frame it in a masculine sense like barbeque then maybe you could get somewhere. I don’t know if there are specific group barbeque classes though lol

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        28 days ago

        This is a really interesting cultural one that always kinda surprises me.

        Where I am, cooking has always been a very masculine thing. Cutting up meat with sharp knives, setting things on fire, etc. The chef industry here is very male dominated and men cook together as a social thing when hanging out. In most families I encounter, the dad does most of the cooking with the exception of maybe baking? It’s weird to hear that it would ever be thought of as insufficiently masculine.

        In fact I think it would be seen as maybe a bit embarrassing/weak if you were a man who couldn’t cook.

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          28 days ago

          To be honest, my shithead US centric mindset kicked in there. OP never mentioned being from the US, but the rise of fascism has been a major focus as of late so I assumed they were.

          It’s good to know other countries are more sensible and don’t share our stupid concept of masculinity being degraded by not having a woman be your kitchen slave cook.