No, I really don’t need another bunch of money spent for a half finished project that I’m never going to finish or hobby that I’ll never return to. It sounds bad but it truly is better for me to give up and not try, at least it doesn’t continue piling failures on top of me.
Do you live with yourself?
Very unfortunately I do. Wouldn’t if people didn’t insist I stay
How long would suffocation in there take? Might not be too bad tbh
That’s honestly the vibe I got–its just dumping your responsibilities to yourself onto another person. I’d hate to do that to someone.
Final boss might be a dungeon master instead
Yeah, I said it was a different subculture… Then the dude was like no it’s not… Then I was like yeah, not bdsm in general, a subculture… Hope you’re caught up now buddy
Sorry not usually this much of a dick but I lose patience with those with people who won’t read
Oh BDSM in general isn’t like that, sure, but I’m in a submissive focused discord and there are many people there who have lifestyle dynamics similar to the one in the post. Like yeah the poster doesn’t know what they’re talking about but those kinds of dynamics certainly do exist. They’re not something I’m comfortable with, self discipline has to come from the self and to me having discipline for life things like that come from your partner enforcing that on you feels like a crutch that I’m not ok with personally, but ykinmk and all that.
It’s honestly kind of interesting to me, I think dynamics fall onto a spectrum of being controlled to being taken care of. I mean that in a general sense, not specific things like aftercare. Like yes caring for and about your partner is an important part of any relationship but that end of the spectrum falls more under parental care in my mind. I’m certainly no expert, lifestyle dynamics aren’t for me, but I like lurking and observing because I think it’s neat.
It’s a different subculture than the ones you know.
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Transfem here, generally unless the topic being discussed is gender specific users genders aren’t relevant. Though, Lemmy has a pretty bad track record with gender relations imo, the whole women choosing the bear thing was such a shit show. The men’s lib community is good though, I’ve interacted with a couple posts there that popped up on my feed while scrolling and it actually consists of users who are empathetic and understanding and not anti-women like the reddit one turned into. It’s interesting, Lemmy has many many more male users than female, and it goes a bit further, with the ratio of transmascs to transfems being reversed. I just think it’s interesting that it’s an amab/afab split rather than a gender split. As someone in the thread trans-hatingly put it, “even the women are men here.”
Eh, unless you’re discussing something gender specific it generally doesn’t come up. I find it’s honestly kinda rare to refer to users you’re not addressing so pronouns never really come up
Gentlemen.
It’s a nuclear device.
Time is running out!
Tuh, tuh, time is running out!
Red alert 2 instead of 3 but it’s such a great song
Miez is such a cutie!
Seeing as how things just keep getting worse and worse, the star wars sequel trilogy? Shame I can’t turn it off
If you don’t mind me asking, what do you mean by break? To me, pain is easier if there’s nothing I can do to improve or prevent it. Takes a mental load off, at least. I’m thankful I don’t believe in afterlives, I’m SO looking forward to nonexistence.
4chan is more than /b/ and /pol/, you know. The porn boards are pretty good at least
Moooooooood