• Caradoc879@lemmy.world
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      11 months ago

      Normalize not demanding explanations, and start accepting ‘I just couldn’t’ as a valid answer. Don’t let normie neurotypicals define what is "Normal’.

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        11 months ago

        That’s not really an answer.

        The things that make people feel/act this way are typically the really important stuff that has to get done or else there are consequences.

        We can’t just accept ‘i just couldn’t’ in many of these situations.

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          11 months ago

          But sometimes "I just couldn’t ’ is the answer. You dont mad that a fish can’t climb a tree. First you ask why the fish needs to be in the tree. And then if it really does, you help the fish get into the tree. Standing behind it shouting words of encouragement or tgreats mean nothing when a fish can’t climb. Far too often people get caught up so much on blaming and shaming people for mistakes or failures that it turns relationships sour and the original problem still doesn’t get solved.