I just got ghosted by the girl I was talking to, I want to find another girl to talk to. This girl and I met at the gym, but I don’t want to be the guy that goes to the gym just to meet girls. I mean sure there’s the bar and Tinder, but I want a real relationship. I mean, I guess it’ll come to me.

  • flamingo_pinyata@sopuli.xyz
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    6 months ago

    Unfortunately I’m writing from personal experience.

    After too many years I don’t think I’ll ever find anyone. But accepting it was a relief. It’s terrifyingly lonely at times, but at least I’m not suicidal any more. And I understand who I am and what is my way of life.

    I can’t understate the benefits of understanding oneself can have on mental health.

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      6 months ago

      I’m in a similar position, but I think I’m still working through “coming to terms” with my “situation.”

      It’s definitely depressing as I’ve only had 2 real goals in life: be in a loving relationship, and own a home. Both of those are proving to be exceedingly unlikely to happen the older I get.