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  • I feel like if I came out I’d be virtue signalling and taking oxygen from people who are “actually queer”. I’m worried people won’t believe me, because I spent 15 years not believing myself.

    For what it’s worth from an internet stranger:

    I believe you. You are allowed to take up space. You are allowed to be who you are. You have just as much of a right to identify as whatever you want as anyone else. And if someone doesn’t agree with that, that says a whole lot more about them than about you.






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    1 year ago

    That’s great, thanks! I’m not in the US, so I’ll have to do any shopping elsewhere, but I’ll check out the videos. Is it expensive to get started, or can you get the most basic necessities on a budget? (I tend to be a multicrafter, trying everything a little bit, and only spending more if I really want to dive into it.)

    And yeah I’ll join you in the community, excited to learn more. Thanks!


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    1 year ago

    That looks absolutely gorgeous, if I saw that in a shop I’d be like “I must have this!”

    I’ve wanted to try working with leather for a long time, but I find it very intimidating. Do you have any suggested resources on how to get started?








  • Interesting question. I actually had a conversation about this with friends recently, one of the group had just gotten an ASD diagnosis and we realised we were all neurodivergent–except, did I count? We quickly concluded that that didn’t really matter, but now I’m curious what y’all think.

    Due to a medical event years ago, I suffered brain damage. It didn’t really “break” functions, but since then I’ve had trouble with concentration, energy, mental planning, and perhaps most importantly I get overstimulated really easily. I can’t handle a conversation while the radio is on, I wear ear plugs when I need to go into a shop, I can’t watch busy/flashy tv shows, if someone is fiddling with something in their hands I get an urge to run away, etc. It might not sound like much to some, but it’s left me unable to work (there’s more than I described).

    I realise that neurodivergence is mostly used for differently developed brains. But mine also don’t function “typically”. What do you think?

    (And just to reiterate, it really doesn’t matter, I know how I am and how my brain works now and a label isn’t important to me, I’m just wondering if the general public would find it strange if I said I’m neurodivergent).