It was a long time building up in our friendship and after it all fell apart I can honestly say I’m happier for it finally falling apart.

It was like a great big weight was lifted off my shoulders when I told them that we were no longer friends.

I hope they’re doing well and got their act together but I don’t want to reach out and talk to them again.

Edit: Basically I was friends with this person for a decade and in that time we understood each other quite a bit. I overlooked some of their more toxic traits because I guess I was so desperate for a friend that I was willing to ignore them.

But it all eventually came to a head when they ruined the start to a vacation that they knew I was super excited for.

Long story short, they got blackout drunk in my apartment after I went to sleep before we were to go hiking and camping the following day. They vomited all over my apartment causing hundreds of dollars in damages. The following morning I tried to get them to clean up as much as they could but they couldn’t stop vomiting. They never apologized for it. The last thing I sent them was a bill that they never paid.