Happened to me a long time back. Was really close with my cousin until he molested my sister.
Obviously, that relationship never recovered. My whole family disowned him, and afterward he pretty quickly fell into what appears to be some kind of schizophrenia paired with alcoholism.
There’s a part of me that almost feels bad for the guy, especially since he had a really rough upbringing, and was doing really well for himself before all this came out. But on the other more important hand, fuck that guy.
Btw, sorry for dumping that on you. Looking back at this post, you were asking a chill question and I just rolled up with the heaviest possible reply I could throw at you. That wasn’t very cash-money of me.
Hope you’re having a good day/night, and I hope everything works out for you!
Its ok. I never discourage people having latitude to say what they feel they need to say. The convos and threads are seldom the worse for it :)
Besides, low key my question really isnt all rhat chill or at least I don’t totally feel like that is the tenor of it here. Its ok i should have included more thats come out here but ya, I really appreciate any input. I feel like such an idiot
Happened to me a long time back. Was really close with my cousin until he molested my sister.
Obviously, that relationship never recovered. My whole family disowned him, and afterward he pretty quickly fell into what appears to be some kind of schizophrenia paired with alcoholism.
There’s a part of me that almost feels bad for the guy, especially since he had a really rough upbringing, and was doing really well for himself before all this came out. But on the other more important hand, fuck that guy.
What was his profession if you don’t mind me asking? Feel free to mind :(
Lol no worries. He ended up on the oil rigs around the time that all went down, but last I saw he was unemployed.
Im sorry. I dont know what else to say, so ridiculous are we (mankind)
Edit: again, same deal, what happened to sis?
All good, this was a while back. She’s doing great, thankfully.
Im glad
Edit: please tell her you love her and you’re soooo glad she’s safe :)
Btw, sorry for dumping that on you. Looking back at this post, you were asking a chill question and I just rolled up with the heaviest possible reply I could throw at you. That wasn’t very cash-money of me.
Hope you’re having a good day/night, and I hope everything works out for you!
Its ok. I never discourage people having latitude to say what they feel they need to say. The convos and threads are seldom the worse for it :)
Besides, low key my question really isnt all rhat chill or at least I don’t totally feel like that is the tenor of it here. Its ok i should have included more thats come out here but ya, I really appreciate any input. I feel like such an idiot
Have an updoot lol
This is not a chill question at all. When someone who knows you better than anyone else ghosts you, there are very serious issues afoot
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My cousin? He tried texting me after a few years and I replied “Don’t ever contact this number again.”
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How old was he when he molested your sister? He must have been an adult if the family disowned him right? Were you and he the same age?