• BottleOfAlkahest@lemmy.world
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    8 months ago

    I think Nex used they/them. Knowing Oklahoma they aren’t gonna look into this anymore at all. It’s already a very backwards state when it comes to respecting human life, the fact that they were non-binary essentially means that there no chance Oklahoma is taking this seriously.

    Even if a concussion didn’t contribute being non-binary in as hostile a place as OK can’t have helped. As long as these assholes are in charge kids will continue to die (and not just Trans kids, it’s not a picnic being any minority in Oklahoma).

    • cowboycrustation [he/him]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      8 months ago

      Nex used he/him and they/them pronouns.

      “Benedict, a 16-year-old Indigenous person who used both he/him and they/them pronouns according to friends and family”

      Source: https://www.npr.org/2024/03/15/1238780699/nex-benedict-nonbinary-oklahoma-death-bullying

      I know all too well about these kinds of situations. My first thought when this story broke out in the news was “this could have been me.” I’m from a state in the deep south with similar politics, and I know how easily local politics can get corrupted. I was a baby trans in a shitty, transphobic school system too. There are good people and people who care and want to help who are from there I’m sure, but the system has been built from the ground up to enforce the status quo.

      I hope that there will be justice for Nex Benedict. If not now, then someday when things change for the better. In the meantime, we have to fight to get there and hold people accountable for their actions.

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      8 months ago

      He used they/them because it was easier especially for the parents. According to close friends Nex was a boy.