Everything just seems so out of control. The US seems to be tearing itself apart. The world is on fire. We seem to be going backwards when it comes to freedom and human rights. We’ve turned our backs on each other. How do you cope with all this without just giving up?

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    8 months ago

    Don’t spend all your time reading news, they are purposely negative because it generates more interest and money, don’t take everything you read as truth.

    99% of these problems won’t turn into anything other than a faded memory.

    End of the day, nothing you can do will change what’s happening half way across the world, so why let it change you?

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        The United States has been overthrowing democratically elected governments for a hundred years. The CIA has exported terrorism, trained gorilla soldiers to terrorize and torture civilians, and promoted fascism over democracy. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_States_involvement_in_regime_change

        We have a war on drugs that is really a war on people, an excuse to target people of color. We have a for profit prison system run by private corporations that lobby politicians in what is effectively legal bribery. Our entire economic system, capitalism, allows those with wealth to exploit those without, and to use their power and money to “lobby” politicians. People are never going to get a fair shake.

        Edit: The US has amazing people and so much potential to survive and overcome our problems, but there’s a darkness that motivates people in power, maybe it’s fear of communism or fear of powerlessness, idk

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    On average the world is better than it’s ever been. Higher life expectancies, less war, better quality of life; it’s all generally on the up. Would you rather go back to the last financial crisis? When the ozone layer was being depleted? The interment threat of nuclear annihilation? Race riots? Women not being able to vote? High infant mortality? etc, etc

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      There is less war, but that’s not always a great indicator. Depending on how you define “war” you could even define Ukraine/Russian war not as a war.

      Life expectancy is going up because of 3rd world countries finally catching up. It’s going down in America.

      The “world” is also getting richer. But the average person is getting poorer.

      Also ozone layer isn’t doing great, there are race riots still, there is threat of nuclear war with Russia existing in its current state, a lot of rights are threatened and a lot of people want to return to a time before women’s suffrage. I haven’t looked up anything on infant mortality, but I imagine with abortion band happening that will also change for the worse.

      The only peace I’ve found is action.

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        This is such a short-sighted and USA-centric response. Your life expectancy seems fine, and even if there were a blip I’m sure it will continue to increase on average. Wealth is not an objective measure of quality of life. The ozone layer repaired itself. Even in America you’ve got a lot less lynching than you used to have. Speak to anyone who lived through the cold war and tell them you think nuclear war is just as much of a threat now as it was then.

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          I do have arguments against all of what you said. But the funniest one is definitely the ozone layer.

          You sure you want to say the ozone layer is fine? When was the last time you looked at anything talking about it?

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            As a result of the scientific findings and the possible severe impacts of ozone depletion, governments around the world began passing laws reducing or banning the production of CFCs and other ODSs. This culminated in the Montreal Protocol, agreed in 1987, which has now been signed by every member state of the United Nations. Signatories to the Montreal Protocol have agreed to phase out ODSs and replace them with less-damaging substances.

            Since the passing of the Montreal Protocol, the emissions of ODSs have fallen to a fraction of their levels in the early 1980s and the ozone layer has begun to recover. The hole in the ozone layer over Antarctica still exists, but it has been slowly shrinking over the past two decades thanks to concerted international action.

            https://www.metoffice.gov.uk/weather/climate/climate-explained/ozone-layer

            So not completely back to how it was before we fucked it, but the problem has been fixed

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              "By taking a holistic look at the yearly progression of the Antarctic ozone hole over the last two decades, we find that:

              The addition of recent years to the Antarctic (60°S–90°S) total column ozone time series results in insignificant long-term change since the early 2000’s, even where significant recovery has previously been reported. During this time, we find a delay in both the deep ozone hole onset date as well as the breakup date."

              https://www.nature.com/articles/s41467-023-42637-0

              Tl:dr if all you’re doing is looking at the peak/minimum times of year it can seem better. The hole “breathes” and they’re getting delayed.

              I work on diesel trucks, they create a lot of N0x. This article talks about how N0x being bad. It’s a niche thing but I at least understand why I tend to see these things first.

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      On average the world is better than it’s ever been

      Of course, certain groups of people have been trying to reverse these trends in the name of…money? Tradition?

      The newer generations are no longer becoming smarter (I believe it was the Flynn effect). Education is being defunded at all levels.

      The cost of living in many parts of the world has been outpacing wages… especially now, but for decades. Yet we have more wealth hoarded into fewer hands.

      Anti-vax and anti-science movements have been reintroducing measles and have been making it hard to fight other diseases.

      We are seeing the effects of these things in action, and they will only get worse over time.

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        They’re trying to reverse those trends because acknowledging those trends means giving up on their theory that our dominant economic system is defunct.

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            Exactly. That kind of thinking doesn’t work when you realize the “cancer” is producing situations like:

            Higher life expectancies, less war, better quality of life

            Do you disagree with those statements? Do you need to see evidence before you’ll believe them?

            Or do you acknowledge the statements, but disagree that they justify the “cancer” of our current economic system?

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    Focus:

    Exactly as Stephen R. Covey pointed-out, in “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Families”

    https://www.amazon.com/Habits-Effective-Families-Revised-Updated/dp/1250857775/

    You have a Circle-of-Concern: all the things you attach your awareness on,

    and you also have a Circle-of-Influence: all the things you actually can alter.

    Since the bigger your Circle-of-Concern, the LESS life-energy you have for your Circle-of-Influence, therefore you need to deliberately reduce your Circle-of-Concern, in order to expand your Circle-of-influence.

    That’s it: it’s that simple.

    Deny awareness-vampire processes your lifeblood.

    Own your own self, more, & use that self-owning in order to make your portion of the world more-healthy.

    Just because mass-media did all it could to make one boundaryless, helplessly stuck in consuming-trance, bedazzled & led-along like steers the industry is bringing into the abbatoir, doesn’t mean that you or I agreed to our lives doing/being only that, does it?

    We never agreed.

    It is our right to break the “agreement” that our childhoods were signed-into, before we could do any considered-reasoning.


    Either we have the guts & gall to do it, or our-lives are consumed by the “machine” that exists only for sake of its own transient profit-sensations.

    Owning one’s own life is a right.

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